What is Valentines day…really. Have you researched where it came from and why we do what we do? Sure it is nice to have a day to tell some how much we care, but shouldn’t we do this anyway and not wait for one day out of the year.

If you are someone who has high expectations of what to expect on the 14th and it does not follow through…are you disappointed. Did you tell someone what you expected, did you do the same, do you feel you are entitled to receive such a gift. Then you are seeing this for all the wrong reasons.

You should give for the sake of giving, and discuss your expectations with your partner. It can be a sweet texted, or write a note and put it in there purse or wallet. Keep this up throughout the year, and flirt with them…didn’t you do that while you were dating.

Trust me, my husband and I have been married for 13yrs and have three kids and you can easily get caught up in the everyday. So stop and remember what brought you together.